Choosing to place your child for adoption provides an expectant mother with several options. You can select the family that will raise your child and the amount of contact you would like after the adoption is finalized.
The amount of contact varies from open with some visits to entirely closed. You choose your best plan, and we’ll help you find a matching family. Let’s take a look at what a closed adoption looks like for you and your child.
Closed Adoption
In a closed adoption, there’s no contact between the birth parents and the adoptive parents, and no identifying information is shared. The courts seal the original birth certificate, and all parties remain anonymous. There is no further communication.
Although no identifying information is shared, adoptive parents usually receive information you choose to disclose to the agency on a Medical/Social History. Depending on state law, the adoptee can request non-identifying information about the birth parents. In Tennessee, the adopted child can seek access to identifying information once they turn 21. Most states allow the release of information if both sides consent.
The Pros of a Closed Adoption
For some women, the privacy of a closed adoption is essential. Sometimes, when a woman is in an abusive relationship or fears for the safety of her child, she selects a closed or confidential adoption.
Some birth mothers also feel it would be easier to move on with their lives if they didn’t have contact with their child or the adoptive family in the future. They may feel that contact might be too emotional for them.
The Cons of a Closed Adoption
Having no contact leaves everyone with many questions. The adoptee may wonder about their heritage and family history. Birth parents may question whether they made the right decision without information on the safety and care for their child. Adoptive parents have few answers to the many questions their adopted child may ask.
Why You Should Work With A Loving Option Adoption
- We provide an Expectant Parent Specialist to advocate specifically for them.
- We provide a 24/7 Helpline so you can speak with someone any time, day or night.
- Assistance with legitimate pregnancy-related needs, including medical, transportation, and other needs
- Counseling and support
- Option to choose the adoptive family for your child
- All legal expenses and attorney fees are cost-free to you
Only you can determine if a closed adoption is best for you. At one time, birth mothers and adoptive couples could only choose closed plans. Open or semi-open adoption is a relatively recent trend, but today, these plans account for 90 to 95% of all adoptions. We are happy to discuss the type of openness you may desire for your adoption plan.
Contact Us to Learn More
If you are facing an unexpected pregnancy, you have a big decision ahead of you. Placing your child for adoption is a difficult, brave, emotional, and loving choice. Take time to learn more and receive the care and counsel you need. After all, choosing adoption is not a one-time decision; it’s for a lifetime.
We know you have many questions. Set up an appointment with A Loving Option Adoption to discuss your situation and determine if adoption is right for you.
We are here to help you.